I recently read Michael Arrington’s post “Startups Are Hard. So Work More, Cry Less, And Quit All The Whining” and it struck me as extremely shortsighted and even propaganda-ish. It appears I was right. The article references Jamie Zawinski’s diary, written in 1994, in which Jamie details his experience being on the early engineering team at Netscape. The diary has reads:
“I’m so fucking burnt. Existence is suffering.
We’re doomed.
I’d work on my resumé, but I don’t even have anything new to put on it yet, because we haven’t actually shipped anything.
I’m going to go home and cry myself to sleep now.”
Zawinski’s diary is a great read into what engineers have to go through sometimes in their field of work. However, Michael Arrington use of Jamie’s diary to try and promote a notion that engineers should shut up, work long hours, and burn themselves out has seriously backfired. In Zawinski’s response titled: “Watch a VC use my name to sell a con”, Zawinski writes:
“He’s trying to make the point that the only path to success in the software industry is to work insane hours, sleep under your desk, and give up your one and only youth, and if you don’t do that, you’re a pussy. He’s using my words to try and back up that thesis.
I hate this, because it’s not true, and it’s disingenuous.”
I can only say that as a software engineer myself, I know how miserable things can get at times. It’s ok to cry, it’s ok to whine, and it’s ok to work your ass off. We’re only humans after all and seriously if you’re not crying and whining because of your work, then you’re doing it wrong.
Do what you love and cry if you want to.