Once again, I’ve decided to deactivate my Facebook account. While my friends are quick to say “yeah whatever … you’ll be back”, I’ve been having a tough time justifying the need for Facebook. When someone who doesn’t have a facebook account asks me “Hey should I get a Facebook account?” my quick and default reply is “You don’t have one?! You need to get on Facebook”. Then I quickly ask myself .. why should they? Well let’s take a look:
Possible reasons you can recommend signing up for Facebook:
1) Reuniting with high school and college friends as well as other personal connections
2) Sharing pictures and videos with your friends and family
3) Building your social network for career opportunities
4) Creating and inviting friends to events
5) Sharing your personal contact info
6) Creating and joining common interest groups
(I can’t think of any more reasons at the moment so please add some reasons in the comments. I honestly want to dissect this thing)
Onward!
A successful visit to any website is one where you are able to obtain useful information to use in your own life. Think about any website you go to really often. They typically contain something that is useful to you or at least entertaining. Whether it be your online banking site, research on google, youtube videos … you always get something out of it. That said, we can even measure how successful a visit to a site is by gauging how satisfied we feel when we close the lid on our laptops at night. While I could almost categorize this as mildly entertaining: looking at pictures of my college roommate’s ex-girlfriend totally trashed and drunk does not constitute useful information. I’ve found that this kind of stimulus just adds noise to my life and this is the problem I have with social networking sites like Facebook. We’ve rounded up all of these users and now everyone is just looking at each other with nothing to do and nothing important to say.
” So iamnotrobot what do you when you are sitting at your computer?? I don’t know any other websites besides Facebook, Myspace, and Google. What am I to do?!?! ”
Well, never fear. When I first deactivated my facebook account, I had some withdrawal symptoms for sure. I would occassional type in http://facebo – and then remember I no longer had an active account. I didn’t even know why I was opening a browser and mechanically typing in the address. I needed something to cure the addiction …
Soon thereafter I started scouring the interwebs for useful and/or entertaining content. After many months of use I believe a good way to ween yourself from the Facebook black whole is to use a service like StumbleUpon. You can specify types of websites you’d like to see and StumbleUpon will somewhat randomly direct you to a website you might find interesting. You can even thumb up or thumb down any site which StumbleUpon comes across. These ratings are then shared back with the entire Stumble community which leads to better a ‘stumbling’ experience. In essence, whenever I feel the urge to go on Facebook and waste some time, I stumble across a few websites instead. If we’re not already friends on StumbleUpond, check out my stumbles and add me as friend. If we’re not already friends on StumbleUpon, check out my stumbles and add me as friend. Make sure you get the FireFox plugin or the Safari plugin.
The wasted time once occupied by Facebook is now replaced by short StumbleUpon sessions. More Better!!
With all that said, I think these Facebook vacations are key. They fill in the various space-out moments we have in the day with something other than staring at pictures and comments about stupid shows.